Cemetery History
New Sign Facing Raymond Place
New Sign Facing Raymond Place
New Sign Facing Raymond Place
Cross on top of Hill
Cross on top of Hill
Cross on top of Hill
Original Granite Stone Sign
Original Granite Stone Sign
Original Granite Stone Sign

Our Church Cemetery was founded in 1910 - five years after the founding of our Church.

By 1910, the church was able to accumulate $800.00 through donations from the parishioners, and they acquired a two-story corner store next to the church for a rectory. The store was enclosed and a small wing was attached to it. The church school was housed in the store, and the wing became a library.

At this time , the Brotherhood had been working on a cemetery project. In May of 1910, they acquired five wooded acres from James Bisset, the first mayor of South River, for the sum of $300.00. To celebrate the signing of the deed, our parishioners walked through one and a half miles of marsh and woods until they found the hill where the cross now stands. There they exploded many firecrackers and then started to work on a road. Mr. Bisset had donated enough land for an access road, as well as the use of his horse and wagon, and gave our parishioners all the brickbats they needed to fill in the marshy areas. The parishioners had to do the loading and unloading, but their first task was to cut and clear about a mile of woods for their roadbed.

A local blacksmith, William Kelch, made and donated a 25 foot steel cross which, in time, deteriorated and was replaced by a smaller wooden cross. The cemetery grounds are approximately a quarter mile from the Church accessible through Raymond Place, off of Kamm Avenue.

The first parishioner buried at the cemetery was Mr. John Koval on October 7, 1910. As the story tells it, “Since there was no bridge crossing the river in Old Bridge to get to the glass factory, our people had tied a raft to get back and forth to work. During a torrential rain, the raft was swept away and John drowned.”

A number of individuals who were instrumental in the history of our Church are reposed here in our cenmetery including the V. Rev. Philip Pechinsky, V. Rev. Peter Semashko, and Professor Ivan Blonsky who was the director of the church choir for many decades.

In 1949, the church acquired an additional 10 acres for the cemetery from Marcus Wright (son of the builder of our church) at $50.00 an acre. The property remained wooded until 1962. This new addition was dedicated by Metropolitan Ireney on June 9, 1975, as it was needed for interment. Under the leadership of the Very Reverend Joseph Kreshik, the new ten acres were developed at the cemetery. Another strip of land was acquired from the town to include some old burials which were located on borough property, and the entire 15 acres were fenced in for the first time. At the same time, our Seven Acres Park was still mostly mud and swamp. French drains were put in, fill dirt from the cemetery was carted in, a barbecue area was built, a baseball field laid out, some trees removed and others planted, and the entire area was enclosed by a fence.

During the 2010 decade, trees were planted along either side of the road to the newer section of the cemetery as a beautification project. In 2016, some of the now rusting fencing was removed, and a Cemetery sign was added at the end of Raymond Place.

St. Thomas Sunday grave blessing services are vigilantly performed every year. Memorial Day services for those Parishioners who lost their lives in the service of our country are also kept every year.

 

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Confession schedule can be found in the bulletin OR by clicking here: Monthly Calendar For those who are hesitant to worship in person, Fr. David is available to meet with you, either at home or in church, to participate in the Sacraments of Holy Confession and Communion. Please email or call Fr. David to set up an appointment.  
 
General Confession will resume on Saturday June 7th. It is held on the first and third Saturdays of every month. You are NOT required to attend twice per month - only once - and if you are in need of a private confession, Fr. David is available on Saturday evenings, starting at 6PM.
 
For the spiritual edification of those seeking to delve deeper into Holy Scripture, we're pleased to offer Weekly Bible Study in Russian  led by Father Anatoly Andreev. If you want the opportunity to experience Christ in the language that is very close to your heart, come and participate.
 
Anyone interested in Prosphora (Holy Bread) Baking is more than welcome to help on Saturday, November 8, starting at 10:30AM, in the hall. Our wonderful group of bakers could always use extra hands in continuing the tradition of offering our finest ot God and His Holy Church. Come one, come all!! 
 
The Men's Club is hosting an Atlantic City Excursion to the Resorts Casino  on Thursday, Nov. 13th. Enjoy the boardwalk or try your luck. Tickets are $40 / person and all participants will receive $20 in slot play, as well as a snack and drink on the bus. Seating is limited - first come, first served!. For more info, contact Pete Silowka (732-735-6540) or email (silowkapd@aol.com)
 
An Icon Tree of Remembrance will be held in the church hall on Saturday, November 15th, starting at 5PM. This parish event will usher in the Nativity Lenten Season (Advent) and remind us of the spiritual steps we will take over the next five-and-a-half weeks as a community to greet the Newborn King on December 25th. (See home page for more info.)
 
The Altar Society is holding a Thanksgiving Bake Sale  during Coffee Hour on Sunday, November 23rd. This is a good time to buy scrumptious pies, heavenly cakes and delectable cookies for company coming to your house for dinner. Serve your guest home-baked treats without having to do any of the labor. Not only that, every penny of the proceeds goes directly to the continuing blessed works of this parich organization. Now THAT is something to be thankful for.
 
Instead of traditional cookies, why not try a delicious kolachi roll for Christmas and/or New Year's dinner? The parish is again selling this fine pastry for the holidays. Four varieties are being offered for $19 each. (Nut, poppy seed, apricot and prune) An order form was included in the September 21st bulletin. You can also call (732-254-4979) or email (jcdeerson@verizon.net) Carol Deerson. The deadline is Sunday, November 16; pickup will be in the hall on Friday, December 5th  between 3pm and 6pm. Support this fundraiser and let us help you with your holiday baking! (These rolls also make unique hostess/Christmas gifts!)
 
Coffee Hour Request: There is a need of volunteers for this service ministry through October and beyond. Please see Deborah Silowka to find out how you can help.
 
FOOD CARD PROGRAM : Food cards are available for various supermarket chains after Divine Liturgy, and do not cost any more than the face value of the card. The church receives a percentage as a free fundraiser! See Judy Znaiden in church or at jznaiden@optonline.net.
 
MEETING DATES:

Altar Society: Mon. Nov 17th @6:30 (Hall)

Parish Council: November 17th@7:30PM (Hall)

Choir Rehearsal: WEDNESDAY, Nov. 5th@7:00PM (Church)

Men's Club: Thurs. November 20th @ 7:00 (Hall)


Sunday, November 16
Apostle Matthew
9:00 Divine Liturgy
Friday, November 21
ENTRANCE OF THE THEOTOKOS
Saturday, November 22
6:00 Confessions
7:00 Vespers
Sunday, November 23
St. Alexander Nevsky
9:00 Divine Liturgy
Monday, November 24
Great Martyr Katherine
Thursday, November 27
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